i had a caserean birth a year ago, and not because i wanted to, it was not nice, and still think about it now, my husband does not understand. I got treated very badly in hospital, i still have flash backs, and the horribal deppresion just will not go, has any one else ever experianced any thing like me.

one night stands (the other people know theyre one night stands, theyre under no illusion as to what theyre getting.

I’m going to sit for the oral interview exam in 5 days, can someone help me out by giving some practice questions that I should expect to be asked by the panel?

I'm doing T.Y this year and in my computer class the teacher set up this site for students in countries such as the Philippines and Spain etc. At the start of the year she said we have to be able to say what the other countries are like school wise by adding pen pals and talking to them. I add a few people and they add me but over a good few months no one was talking to me(everyone else was going on about their pen pals etc and I felt really left out). So i decided to talk a lil finish to see if i could get a reply(that was age's ago). and a lil Spanish too. I got a good reply and we started talking in English like and others joined in speaking English etc now I do have three pen pals etc. However the other day the computer teacher called me aside and said"where you speaking to the other people in different languages ".? I said "yes... but. She did even let me finish she butted in saying "Well you can't do that your only suppose to be speaking English on this site". with that she walked off I caught up with her and said "Well I only did that once and it was because everyone else had a pen pal and i fely left out as no one was talking to me.". She said "there's nothing i can do about that" and mumbled off. This isn't the first time she's moaned about me being on the site when we first joined she moaned at me for setting it to privet when I didn't even know it was myself the thing wouldn't even let me into it the first time I joined. Nor her or I could explain that but instead she moaned at me.She then went and told the principal that I was talking to Italian guys when I so wasn't an Italian teacher had add me and since he text me saying hi i thought that it was a bit creepy since we where suppose to be talking to students really so I deleted him. Please help me as I thought at the start this would be good except she's making it really horrible I feel as if I shouldn't log on to the computer system as she's watching me constantly nagging. Sure there's girls in my class who have uploaded pictures onto bebo about another girl from Pakistan's traditional evening wear and they where slagging her off. them and their mates yet this one didn't notice it. hhmmm bullying or not. is she.?

Please do not be insulted by anything I ask as these are genuine questions and they are aimed at all Islamic sects except Sunni as I will explain below. Although there should be no sects within Islam as the religion is very clear in my eyes and the Quran should be followed along with authentic hadiths as these showed Prophet Muhammad's way of life. From my understanding 'Sunnis' only exist because we have to call ourselves something as there are so many deviations from the route Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) showed us, ie it just means we follow the Sunnah, the Prophet's way. So we all believe in Allah (SWT), the one God and nobody is worthy of worship except Him. We all believe Muhammed (pbuh) is His Messenger. We all know the best example to follow is that of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). So why do Shia people carry out the following practices? Place just as much importance on Hazrat Ali and Imam Mahdi as one might on Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)? Wait for Imam Mahdi like another prophet is coming, when the Mahdi is only paving the way of Hazrat Isa (AS)? The Mahdi is a very special person chosen by Allah (SWT) but he should not be borderline worshipped as many Shias do- the attention paid to Hazrat Ali ( a very important person as one of ther Caliphate) and Imam Mahdi is almost shirk (equivalent to worshipping them as well as Allah). Muhammad (pbuh) is loved as our final prophet and loved as Allah (SWT) has placed great importance on him but he is by no means worshipped as God's equivalent. Why do Shias do ashura (beating yourselves up)? Did Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) do this? Did his friends? Is it in accordance with the Quran, which teaches us to look after our bodies which belong to God? No, this practice appears to be sadomasochistic and an act of repentance for a wrong committed by Shia people themselves ie the murder of Hassan. Why do Shia people add in bits to the Kalimah to include Hazrat Ali's name? Why do you curse the Sahaabah? Did the Prophet curse anyone let alone hisown friends? Why do some Shia people partake in disgusting sexual rituals held once a year which include turning the lights off and sleeping with anyone they come across? Be it sister, mother, daughter? By the way, all the above have been confirmed by many Shia people I have met and who have admitted if not to me but other people I know that all these rituals take place but are hidden and rarely admitted. There is no point denying that these occur as for every 100 Shia people whoi deny these happen, 1 person will admit to certain practices. These are not just rumour...I just want to understand the logic behind why people deviate from the path Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) took? And how it could possibly be justified. I know Shia people don't like following authentic hadith, maybe because they don't incorporate such practice. No one is saying Sunnis don't commit sin, Im not talking about individual people but the general foundations of a faith. Sunnis follow certain rules and if some go off tangent by eg drinking alcohol etc that is their problem but I am talking about actual practices which form part of the faith.

My boyfriend is not educated and works in a factory. I don't have an education either but I earn a lot from working as a dancer. Do you think he look like a good couple? Or do you think I should aim for a man that is more classy and educated and good looking? Here is his photo. He is the one hunched down in the black t-shirt. http://ch.tilllate.com/en/photoalbum/overview/9241644#155077716 My photo http://ch.tilllate.com/en/photoalbum/overview/9390885#157580876