My husband has been on and off with another woman for almost two years now, I've known for a few weeks and haven't confronted him yet. I have read emails where, last year, after HE emailed her asking to get back together (saying that he wanted to see her, etc.), she wrote back saying they should talk on the phone. He agreed. Then she emailed him, COPIED her husband, and said "if you want to talk to me on the phone, call me at home - my husband will be listening in." He must have understood what was happening - she got caught - so in subsequent emails she is thanking him for calling her and saving her. Does this mean that she's more than a booty call to him, if he went to the extent of calling her with her husband listening?? Or am I making too much out of it and it's just sex for him? (Btw, I don't care if you think I'm right in caring about this, just answer the question if you have an opinion on what I actually asked.)